LetterFromMe_4You

Life doesn't battle you because you a weak,  it battles you because you a strong.  It knows that if it gives you pain, you will realize your power. Sometimes we just have to believe there is a good reason behind it and that will reveal itself to us when we were ready to acknowledge it. The past cannot be changed only our perception of it can. I start to trust that everything that happens to me also happens for me. I begin to change my perception to positive and improves my life. If i don't change it i will lose my own joy ! Some of the best changes in life result from the most painful experiences. I through this in order to gain the wisdom, strength and knowledge that i need to appreciate. Life will test you just before it will bless you. With Love Aden 

When others judge you they reveal themselves, they showed their insecurities, need, mindset, attitude, history and limitations. For me this people paint a clear picture of they future as i believe they won't go very far or live a joyful life if they're wasting their precious time by judging others.  I'm accused of being "something" as they saw but for me it is an extension of a judgemental that leads people to their own conclusion.  Constructive opinions can be very beneficial to my growth but destructive ones that demoralize me and don't have a positive purpose doesn't deserve my attention. If i keep trying to satisfy others i began to punish myself for it. I realized i could not please everyone so i should not attempt to or else i will be hard on myself just to be good in others people eyes.  It was important to prioritize my needs and this is exactly what i did.  I'm done and i will never looked back.  Adios !        With Love Aden 

  Counting down the days to 2024 and it just few more days to go!  Before the new chapter starts, i just wanna say that I'm sincerely sorry to every single soul that i have accidentally hurt, offended and wronged intentionally or unintentionally. 2023 is not my best year and i learned a lot ☺ I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has supported me during the tough times. Your support and understanding have meant everything for me. I'm so grateful for the friends i have made this year and always been there for me even when they know I'm hard to handle sometimes. Thank you for one person who have listened without judgement and loved me without conditions, your  dedication, understanding and time all mean so much to me and i feel lucky to be able to experience life alongside you. I will cherish you forever ! 💖   With Love Aden 

"Self love" is the balance between accepting yourself as you know you deserve better and then working towards it. I believe the first element love towards ourself is the focus on our mindset.   You should appreciate where you are and who you are regardless of any transformation aspire to.  Second element encourages growth and the focus is on taking action.   It is sound easy but not many of us can do so include myself.  Stop trying to impress people. Impress yourself. Stretch yourself. Test yourself. Be the best version of yourself.  I committed myself to loving life in a more optimistic manner and i should gave up on my unhealthy habits. As i believed i should embraced positivity as often i could to showed my "self-love" ☺ With Love Aden

It is great to take care of our own self when it comes to physical appearance . I believe we should always feel comfortable in our own skin because the fact that we have body is incredible and it showed a refection of the wonder nature. When the world was created it was not given any rules or instructions to help humankind assess what physical beauty is. This appreciation only will be recognize if you or me practise self love but with media platforms playing on our insecurities it is not easy and i believe it  hard not to compare ourselves with others. However,  Don't let socially constructed ideas about beauty lower your self esteem. There are no rules to beauty as i mentioned before.  Accept and love yourself as you are. Embrace your flaws and get comfortable in your own skin.  The truth is clear "you cannot satisfy everyone" My personal beauty is not for everyone and that is fine. It doesn't mean I'm less beautiful that other human being. Perfection is subje...

Forgive yourself for the bad decisions you have made, for the times you lacked of belief, for the times you hurt others and yourself. Forgive yourself for all the mistake you have made, what matters most is the you a willing to move forward with a better mindset.  Check your own behaviour! This is what I'm always remind myself as this is not only how I'm grow up, it is also an act of self love and by showing this attitude I'm not losing anything.  If I'm feel that I'm right, yet someone else feels I'm wrong, who is right? 👀 Things are different now as I look back on my memories and embrace everything that happened there is a lesson to be learned from every event. Although some of them may have been painful  but they a blessing and it taught me so much. My experiences have left me with a drive to find a way of misery and path towards a better life.  "I realize that the good, the bad and the downright ugly events are all a part of who I have become"  ...